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March 13, 2012

Mirror, Mirror

by Jimmyjane |

While the close proximity and tangled limbs of most sexual positions can yield amazing sensations, they can seriously limit your view.

Not to worry – that’s where mirrors come in. A strategically placed reflection allows you and your partner to play exhibitionist and voyeur simultaneously. From the flirty oval of The Unbearable Lightness of Being, to the ceiling mounted Basic Instinct approach, mirrors are an easy way to capture the action in real time.

Catch subtle expressions or the curve of a spine. The motion of muscles can add an entirely new dimension to the experience. The view of your own body responding has the potential to be equally exciting.

Not sure how to start? » Read more. »

February 8, 2012

T&A - Tips and Advice

Foolproof Fooling Around

by Jimmyjane |

Devoting extra thought, effort and creativity to what we do for the person sharing our pillow and playtime can really pay off – after all, the couple that plays together stays together.

Please Your Woman

1. Chain reaction – She’s already expecting something on Valentine’s Day (no surprise there), so instead, give her a series of small gifts that build up to the main event.

2. Hard bargain – Take her off guard by offering two irresistible options. Massages are an easy favorite, or you can use Valentine’s Day as an excuse to push the boundaries a bit further. After she chooses, write her an IOU for the path not taken – it’s an investment that will offer unexpected dividends. » Read more. »

January 31, 2012

T&A - Tips and Advice

Big Day, Small Budget

by Jimmyjane |

Times may be tight, but that shouldn’t put a crimp on your Valentine’s Day plans. Since money can’t buy you love anyway, take a hands-on, DIY approach, and you’ll have your best 14th yet. Here are three ideas that won’t break the bank –

1. Fondle the aubergine – Eat like royalty (but pay like a pauper) by cooking for yourselves. Head to the farmers’ market, see what looks good, then ask the growers about their favorite recipes. Build up from there, incorporating a few seasonal aphrodisiacs – fennel, blood orange and (of course) chocolate are great places to start. Splurge on champagne with the money you’ve saved.
Tip – Plan something sexy for “dessert.”

2. Go local – The quick trip to St. Barts might be out of the question, but don’t rule out travel altogether. Explore an area of town you don’t know, » Read more. »

January 24, 2012

T&A - Tips and Advice

The Anatomy of a Good Time

by Jimmyjane |

It’s almost February, which means Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. With the elevated expectations of this holiday, it’s natural to want to skip it altogether. Don’t fret – while concocting the perfect celebration can seem like alchemy, here are a few simple guidelines that will significantly increase your chances of coming out golden.

Be decisive – Wear the pants, and take initiative – tell your significant other that you’d like to make the plans for some or all of the day.

Plan ahead – Last minute arrangements will stress you out, cost you more, and be second-rate.

Get creative – Believe it or not, it IS the thought that counts. If you’re going to give a card, make it yourself. If you’re going to give flowers, select and arrange them yourself – you know your lover better than the florist (we hope). » Read more. »

December 13, 2011

T&A - Tips and Advice

DIY Provocative Photography

by Jimmyjane |

Photo courtesy of Me In My Place

We’ve put together a few tips and tricks to help you look your best, whether you want to send a few jpegs to an out-of-town lover, or you’re creating your own personal photo book as a holiday gift (Note: not an appropriate gift for a coworker or relative). » Read more. »

December 7, 2011

T&A - Tips and Advice

Sexy Gifts Aren’t Just for Lovers

by Jimmyjane |

Good friends deserve the gift of love too, be it self-love if they’re single, or safe-love if they’re out and about. If, for example, a particular friend is bemoaning the lack of lasciviousness in her life, then either THE NIGHT OFF or THE REBOUND pleasure sets could offer just the pick-me-up she needs. Or, if you have a single friend who often travels for business (and tends to have adventures along the way), a few ESSENTIALS Pocket Pleasure Sets for safer sex on-the-go would be a prudent choice. Of course, it’s important to follow certain guidelines in order to avoid awkwardness, embarrassment, confusion… or a toxic cocktail of all three.

Your friend may be a viable sexy-gift-recipient, IF –

You regularly discuss » Read more. »

December 1, 2011

T&A - Tips and Advice

How to Get More Bang for Your Gifting Buck

by Jimmyjane |

Diamonds can be anyone’s best friend (or bedfellow), whether they’re hanging on a necklace or embedded in an Everlasting Vibrator. Of course, for most of us, times are still tough – and if money can’t buy you love, it certainly can’t buy you genuine, unbridled passion. Fear not, there’s no need to dedicate a month’s pay to any gift, provocative or otherwise. You can opt for an aphrodisiac Massage Oil Candle, a body-safe Vibrating Ring, a discreet Bullet, or even some high-design, high-end condoms – all are under $35.

For an additional twist, consider a D.I.Y. element – write up an IOU for a full-hour body massage, knit a colorful cozy for a beloved sex accessory, or offer an opportunity to try that thing they’ve always been curious about. (E.g, if spanking is their secret fantasy, wrap up a ping pong paddle with an explanatory note » Read more. »

November 24, 2011

T&A - Tips and Advice

Must-Haves for an Unforgettable Gift

by Jimmyjane |

It’s that time of year again, when the weather grows colder and we get a little closer to the ones we love. It’s a season to reconnect, to celebrate, to show our gratitude and, of course, to mediate the inevitable family feuds. Often, the time-honored tradition of exchanging presents plays a significant role in all of these activities. Of course, this puts a lot of pressure on us to “give good gift” – especially to our spouses, lovers or significant others. A parent or coworker will readily forgive a utilitarian gift (wool socks, hot water bottle, replacement gas cap), but a lover? Not likely.

While there’s no one-size-fits-all formula for the perfect present (and particularly not in the realm of sexy ones), the best gifts, whether naughty or nice, will generally be –

1. Useful – What’s the point of a » Read more. »

July 11, 2011

Let them eat pie.

by Jimmyjane |

Love Potion No. 9 may be not available at the grocery store, but a mouth-watering dessert can easily stand in place of an arousing elixir. Thankfully, your local farmer’s market is ripe with seasonal aphrodisiacs, perfect for baking up a delectable treat that will excite more than just taste buds.

Ruby red, taut and juicy, the early summer harvest is all about cherries, a fruit with a rich history of feminine (and simply sexual) allusion. From 80’s rock to centuries of slang, cherries have long conjured images of anatomy and the possibilities of the forbidden.

As it turns out, there may be science behind the cherry’s ribald reputation. The fruit provides potassium, a requirement for sexual hormone production, as well as an abundance of antioxidants, helping keep skin temptingly » Read more. »

June 3, 2011

They’re Playing Our Song

by Jimmyjane |

Photo by Burk Uzzle, courtesy of www.laurencemillergallery.com

Taking Pleasure in the Music Festival Season

The hot, sunny days and long, wild nights of summer radiate sexual energy. Minimal clothing (and inhibitions) make the season conducive to adventurous romps and fleeting flings, especially for attendees of one of summer’s greatest party circuits – music festivals.

From May to September, millions pack up their bags and set out on a pilgrimage around the world to consume hours of music, dance in the grass and sleep under the stars. The sense of community is reason enough to attend these massive gatherings. Everyone is bound to make a few new friends, share lawn chairs and swap snacks, drinks and doobs. With all those people and all that serotonin, spontaneous sex is virtually inevitable.

Getting some private time amid the public masses may seem tricky, but successful festival season interludes are possible, and more rewarding, with a little preparation. Pack along » Read more. »

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